A Little Extra Love and Attention

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Happy Valentine’s Day!

As this day draws to a close, the kids are quiet in bed, I am snug in my robe, and the glass of wine has been poured. Every year, Valentine’s Day changes a little for our family. As each kid gets older, we further the ways we can express how much we love them.

Looking back on the day, we didn’t do a whole lot different from any other day, but there was more joy in the everyday things.  I know many view Valentine’s Day solely as a commercial holiday, but I use this day to love my husband more, love my kids more, and love my life more.

To celebrate how much we love each other, we decided to have fondue dinner at home. It was an exciting experience as the two older boys could really get into choosing what foods they wanted to try.

A Little Extra Love and Attention

I took James, and only James, to the grocery store where we picked up our fondue goodies:
Chicken Tenders
Steak
Shrimp
Mini Egg Rolls
Mozzerella Sticks
Jalapeno Poppers
Mini Corn Dogs
Pizza Rolls

A Little Extra Love and Attention

The cashier at the grocery store probably thought I was nuts as she rang all the frozen processed food packages! I balanced our meal with mandarin oranges, pea pods, and a big glass of milk. The kids thought it was neat as the hot oil bubbled and cooked all our food. Of course, we were very clear about NO TOUCH.

A Little Extra Love and Attention

A Little Extra Love and Attention

In reality, the kids mostly ate the chicken. They didn’t even want to try an egg roll. Nickolas (18 months) had a major meltdown not even half way into dinner and Pete and I spent most of our time just trying to get him under control so we could eat. I bribed all the kids to eat 2 more bites of anything in exchange for ice cream. When the older boys got down and went to wash their hands in the bathroom, James bit David for some odd reason. So, the after dinner party involved lots of crying and time out.

The funny things is. I don’t care how much of a disaster dinner was. This is our crazy life. Because it was Valentine’s day, and I was already feeling all lovey and happy, I shrugged off the crazy. I kindly spoke to James about why we never bite and let him play in my soapy sink water while I did the dishes.

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It’s been a stressful few months around here and I can feel it coming from everyone in this house. I was reminded today that sometimes we all just need a little extra love and attention. It’s part of that magic glue keeping us together as a happy family. This is the time when all my kids are tucked safely under my wing. I’ll miss these chaotic dinners when I don’t have the boys around to feed.

I think we’ll fondue on Valentine’s Day every year. Next year, Nick will be 2 and he can pick out food to try and then not eat it. Maybe he will even bite someone…

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  • Kim

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    I love the part where you said you didn’t care how much of a disaster dinner was because it’s your crazy life and you love it – so very true!!! Such a fun tradition to do fondue with your family for Valentine’s Day – we might try that next year!!!

    • MaryBeth at The Thrive Blog

      Thank you for leaving a comment, Kim! I hope you do try it! It’s so fun and so easy!

  • cvetybaby

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    Aw you are so cute! Amazing food! Thanks for sharing! Have a nice day!
    xx
    cvetybaby.com

  • Erin

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    Am I a bad aunt for laughing out loud when I read James bit David?

    • MaryBeth at The Thrive Blog

      Absolutely not! You can understand how the peak of dinner time insanity was hit by such ridiculousness!

  • Jenelle

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    I also burst out laughing. Mostly because I am now so acutely aware of how quickly great plans can spiral into chaos. And because James bit David…. 🙂

    • MaryBeth at The Thrive Blog

      Sometimes you’ve just got to deal with chaos swiftly & move on! Thanks, Zsa!

  • Katie

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    I love your family. I hope Nickolas does bite someone next year. Just for tradition sake. 🙂 Someone should get bit on Valentines day!!

    • MaryBeth at The Thrive Blog

      All three boys can bite their cousin next year! Thoughts? Thanks for coming by & leaving a comment, Katie! I love you & your family right back!

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